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Divorce

  This week we will talk about divorce and how that can affect the family. Separation in general, people are so overwhelmed by emotional distancing, conflict, disagreements or difficulties in communication and they do not manage to measure the implications that must be taken into account, not only in the present, but also in the future. Added to the separation situation itself, there are other aspects that need to be realistically assessed and addressed. Divorces can bring a high emotional cost because separation is a vital event that generate a grieving process, that is, a loss that entails suffering and that each one is forced to overcome individually. Also, when divorces happen, they all have different meaning for each part of the relationship, separation impacts partners differently. Rarely the two spouses experience it in the same way. What often happens is that one experiences the break as a step forward and the other as a step backward. This causes a mixture of feelings that int

PARENTING

  Parents are responsible for caring and giving children everything, the need for their healthy development, from their physical health to their emotional education. And without a doubt, one of the things that parents are supposed to make sure is that children are happy. There are studies that say that the first years of life will be the basis for their social and emotional development in the future, so it is extremely important that parents give them the necessary tools. Happiness is something we all aspire to. Having a life with which we feel calm, full and happy is undoubtedly one of the goals that many of us want, not only for ourselves, but also for our own children. I feel like parents have a mission that is: to help children to be happy. But how can they do it? There are many ways to do that but one of them is attachment. There are different types of attachment, but the one that will help them to raise happy children is the secure attachment, which is one in which a relationship