Sex


We talked about how sex and other interactions affect how we relate to others or how it affects our relationships. Oxytocin is a hormone that makes us feel amazing and that usually makes us do things that we shouldn’t. Oxytocin as a chemical messenger in the brain, controlling key aspects of the reproductive system, including childbirth and lactation, and aspects of human behavior. That hormone is usually known as the love drug because is usually generate it when the human is having intercourse. That is one of the reasons why people become addictive to sex and that take us to the next point which is why relationships don’t work.  

Most of the relationships in 2021 are based on sexual contact instead of really getting to know each other and create an emotional connection. The reason why we see this more often is because how trends have changed and will keep changing to worse. The world wants to make us believe that evil is bad and that temporary emotions is true happiness which we as a members of the Church of Jesus Crist of Latter-saints know that true happiness is based on family relationships that are build with love. We also talked about how sex will affect on how the relationship turns out. For example, we know that in order for a girl to get an orgasm takes more time and work than what it takes for a guy to have an orgasm. When that happens it causes tension specially on the girl because she never gets to the orgasm and the guy does and that shows selfishness from one person in the relationship. In order for a relationship or marriage to work talking about the sexual part, both have to be able or open to please each other until they satisfied their needs. In order to satisfied each other sexual needs it takes time to know each other and takes a lot of effort from each side of the relationship. I have a couple of friends that are going through the same situation but I would like to talk about a specific one that is recent. One of my friends got marry a year ago, and for him sexual aspects has been a really important aspect in relationships and so he ended up getting marry to this girl that they never had any interaction and I remember he talked about his honeymoon wasn’t what he really wanted or expected.  He said that during the honeymoon they not even touched each other because she was afraid and really not wanting to have any physical contact. Now days he struggles a lot with having a healthy sexual life with his wife and believe it or no that is a really important factor in order for a relationship to work. I am not saying that I think you should have sex with every person before you are planning on having something serious, but I do think that if you are someone that is super physical you should at least talk about it before considering getting marry. Overall, I think that dating in 2021 has their own pros and cons, pros because you have more freedom to choose what you really want instead of letting your parent choosing for you. Bad things about dating in 2021 is that yes, we have freedom but we have too much freedom that we get to the point that we not even know who we are who we are interested in. Too much freedom that we want everything but can really maintain or keep one single thing with us.

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